Having no friend in your life is really hard to survive. Friends can help us when we are in trouble, or in a bad situation. I had had many friends throughout my life. They help when I need help and I help them when they need help. Friends can also help relieve your troubles when you are feeling stressed or unhappy. But I will sometimes quarrel with my friends. I will not know what to do when I am in that situation, but there will always be a way to get out of the situation. Don't let a small matter 'destroy' your friendship with your friends. The more sociable you are, the more friends you can make. Even our grandparents, teachers or even your pet can be your friend!
So CHERISH your friendship every second !
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Friends....good,bad or just a sick joke?
Hi there,just too let you know that Iwill now apologise to everyone Ihave offended for making manfred cry,its my fault and I am not denying it so please forgive me.
From: Wesley Au
Friends..........why is it good? well for starters they can give you a shoulder to cry on when you need it and they can give you support through your darkest hours.However,those are the good friends and finding one is like looking for a gold nugget in a coal mine.Sure you may think that just by looking for that winning shine will get you a gold nugget,BUT that so called "gold" may be just a yellow stone that will eventually lose its shine and colour.I KNOW that i have found many yellow stones in my life here is the worst one.
Shawn. (former P5 friend) Category: Backstabber and blackmailer.
He was a confused boy,upset and lonely from being transferred to this school.I extended my hand of friendship and he took it........before twisting it and casting it away.I thought I have found a true friend and look what happened.I gave him my prize game account........he used it to blackmail me.I asked him,"Why Shawn,WHY??!" and he looked at me with those cold,nfeeling eyes and said,"Because I wanted to."Luckily he is no longer in this school.This person is utterly merciless,he will repeatedly bend you against your will.Like he did too mine....
What is a Good friend? Friendly? no. Rich? no. Understandable? YES!
a good friend does not even need to be friendly!As long as he is there to support you and to understand you,THAT IS ENOUGH!!! (Just like my enemy/friend circle with Ernest)
REAL friends are all around us. Its just that we have too rub aways the layer of dust on the gold piece too make it REALLY shine!So friends,what is now your enemy today could actually be your friend tomorrow!True friends can be anyone,your pet dog,your parents even your teacher!
But although there are friends all around us,we must remember that we live for OURSELVES not for our friends!So if you ever find yourself in the clutches of someonelike shawn remember this little snippet of information.It could help you someday
Signed.
Wesley Au.
If you are called by the name of "MANFRED" decode the bottom part.
I"m sorry and i konw that all my apologies will not work but i am truely and thoroughly sorry and regretful for your current plight......
From: Wesley Au
Friends..........why is it good? well for starters they can give you a shoulder to cry on when you need it and they can give you support through your darkest hours.However,those are the good friends and finding one is like looking for a gold nugget in a coal mine.Sure you may think that just by looking for that winning shine will get you a gold nugget,BUT that so called "gold" may be just a yellow stone that will eventually lose its shine and colour.I KNOW that i have found many yellow stones in my life here is the worst one.
Shawn. (former P5 friend) Category: Backstabber and blackmailer.
He was a confused boy,upset and lonely from being transferred to this school.I extended my hand of friendship and he took it........before twisting it and casting it away.I thought I have found a true friend and look what happened.I gave him my prize game account........he used it to blackmail me.I asked him,"Why Shawn,WHY??!" and he looked at me with those cold,nfeeling eyes and said,"Because I wanted to."Luckily he is no longer in this school.This person is utterly merciless,he will repeatedly bend you against your will.Like he did too mine....
What is a Good friend? Friendly? no. Rich? no. Understandable? YES!
a good friend does not even need to be friendly!As long as he is there to support you and to understand you,THAT IS ENOUGH!!! (Just like my enemy/friend circle with Ernest)
REAL friends are all around us. Its just that we have too rub aways the layer of dust on the gold piece too make it REALLY shine!So friends,what is now your enemy today could actually be your friend tomorrow!True friends can be anyone,your pet dog,your parents even your teacher!
But although there are friends all around us,we must remember that we live for OURSELVES not for our friends!So if you ever find yourself in the clutches of someonelike shawn remember this little snippet of information.It could help you someday
Signed.
Wesley Au.
If you are called by the name of "MANFRED" decode the bottom part.
I"m sorry and i konw that all my apologies will not work but i am truely and thoroughly sorry and regretful for your current plight......
Friends Or No Friends?
What are your experiences about friendship as you grow older?
we all love to make friends when we are young.The more we have,the more merrier we are.Whether they are boy or girl,we are happy with whom we make friends with. but if the friends dislikes us,most likely we will cry. As we get older,we let our emotions takeover, we make friends with the same gender and feel shy to get close with the opposite gender.You will wonder why does it feels that why making friends with the same gender will still make you feel lonely.It is the fact that you still miss your old friends,whether they are male or female. We all should not be afraid, just make friends!but not any o' how.Choose carefully...the one who is willing to go all the way through with you.whether good or bad times.True friends are the key to your happiness!
How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
We all usually disagree with something and you or your friend will start bickering and comes to the situation where you and your friend's friendship is over.We start to feel the anger and may think "argh!he never listens to me!!!!" and later on you start to feel that you are at fault so you would feel heartbroken and want to patch up your friendship again.All you have to do is just apologise and say you should not have done that and you and your friends will forget this day and continue to be friends again!
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend is basically a good friend who wants to help you with your troubles,shares with you everything they can and goes through with you all the time.They forgive you for most of the things you have done to them and have quite alot of patience when they are with you.They calm you down when you are furious and defend you when you are quarreling with someone else.They stick with you like super glue during the good and bad times!!!=-)
we all love to make friends when we are young.The more we have,the more merrier we are.Whether they are boy or girl,we are happy with whom we make friends with. but if the friends dislikes us,most likely we will cry. As we get older,we let our emotions takeover, we make friends with the same gender and feel shy to get close with the opposite gender.You will wonder why does it feels that why making friends with the same gender will still make you feel lonely.It is the fact that you still miss your old friends,whether they are male or female. We all should not be afraid, just make friends!but not any o' how.Choose carefully...the one who is willing to go all the way through with you.whether good or bad times.True friends are the key to your happiness!
How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
We all usually disagree with something and you or your friend will start bickering and comes to the situation where you and your friend's friendship is over.We start to feel the anger and may think "argh!he never listens to me!!!!" and later on you start to feel that you are at fault so you would feel heartbroken and want to patch up your friendship again.All you have to do is just apologise and say you should not have done that and you and your friends will forget this day and continue to be friends again!
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend is basically a good friend who wants to help you with your troubles,shares with you everything they can and goes through with you all the time.They forgive you for most of the things you have done to them and have quite alot of patience when they are with you.They calm you down when you are furious and defend you when you are quarreling with someone else.They stick with you like super glue during the good and bad times!!!=-)
Friendship (sekwon)
I had 3 best friends. We went to same kindergarten, church and school until P3. We never had quarrel (not sure if spelling correct) and enjoyed very well. When I was P3, my father sent me to Singapore International school (as i stayed in Indonesia for 10 years) which called 'Bina Bangsa School). Althought we could not play in the school, we still played in church. However the happy days had break when my father told us to go to Singapore. i really did not want to go Singapore but had no choice as my mother said I'll have to work with my father but i really believed it. after one year studying in Singapore, my mother decided to go tho Indonesia to meet our friends. I was really happy. Until now we had time to sms eachother.
HOW DO I COPE MY LITTLE UPSET????
I do not really show my upset accept when it is serious. Even it is serious, i try to calm myself not to show my feelings as it might be very rude. Actually I do not really understand why some of us could not cope their own upset. i will just try to think of somthing funny or the day which i had my favorite time such as going to some island with my friend which I had written earlier or computer game.
WHAT IS YOUR GOOD FRIEND?????
My good friend, i usully enjoy play someone who usually not very naughty but when met, became evil like all my best friend do. I also like to play who is funny or do not easily cry as it will be frustrate if they do not stop crying. Next, i don really likes to play who is bad as sports as it will be boring just stay at home playing computer game. Lastly, i like to play who is active and who enjoy playing with me.
Friendship
What are your experiences about friendship as you grow older?
From young,we did not know how to tell a good or a bad friend, so we just make friends with the first person we see.But as we grow older, we can tell good or bad and soon starts to choose friends. At around P5, we start to stick to a group of friends, ignoring others and choosing the ones we want only.
How do you copewithe the little upsets or the big upsets?
Many of us may start to say this, " I don't be your friend already!" or even start to fight and ignore each other. But, we should just treat that little/big accident as a dream(or someting) and continue the next day as friends again.
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend is one that comes to you when you are in the time of need. They stick by your side most of the times and help you with your troubles. They confort you when you are down. Even if we quarrel, we will get back together and be friends again
From young,we did not know how to tell a good or a bad friend, so we just make friends with the first person we see.But as we grow older, we can tell good or bad and soon starts to choose friends. At around P5, we start to stick to a group of friends, ignoring others and choosing the ones we want only.
How do you copewithe the little upsets or the big upsets?
Many of us may start to say this, " I don't be your friend already!" or even start to fight and ignore each other. But, we should just treat that little/big accident as a dream(or someting) and continue the next day as friends again.
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend is one that comes to you when you are in the time of need. They stick by your side most of the times and help you with your troubles. They confort you when you are down. Even if we quarrel, we will get back together and be friends again
Friends
What are your experiences about friendship as you grow older?
When we are young, we make lots of friends unknowingly. Maybe it's because we are not shy, and very comfortable with many people. But we may forget our true friends many times in our lives. When we change school, we will usually lose contact with many many many friends. But we can make new ones. But we do miss our old friends sometimes. Many people come in and out of our lives. Only those who leave behind their footprints are true friends. Many people usually make friends by looking at their ' popularity','wealthiness'. etc. But they NEVER care about thier personalities. They do not care a thing about their politeness. Because they just want to be well-known. Its like packaging. An apple may look good outside. But in the inside, it is rotten with many worms. So choose your friends carefully. So you will not regret it next time. Its fate whom bring us together so.. DONT LOSE TRUE FRIENDS !
How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
This is an excellent question for many of us. As we are sometimes short-tempered and this may cause us to lose many good friends aroung us easily. We can cope with big or little upsets by calming down. Do not explode immediately when it comes to any of this situation. Try to stay calm, think about it and talk with your friends nicely. If things do not work out, you may have to think about your friendship. Though not everyone is a friend. There are oso may people out there trying to harm you by pretending to be a friend to you.
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend should help you in times of need. You should also help them too. Good friends are always there by your side when you are in trouble. They share your wealth and woe with you. They share their things with you, help you when you need help, comfort you when you are sad, help you talk things out with others, calm you down when you are angry and share your excitement when you are excited. Friends do not run away when you are in trouble, instead, they will stay beside you and help you.
Remember words from a true friend," I will always be there for you."
Friendship is strong yet delicate, it can be easily broken.
Cherish all your friends before its too late !
When we are young, we make lots of friends unknowingly. Maybe it's because we are not shy, and very comfortable with many people. But we may forget our true friends many times in our lives. When we change school, we will usually lose contact with many many many friends. But we can make new ones. But we do miss our old friends sometimes. Many people come in and out of our lives. Only those who leave behind their footprints are true friends. Many people usually make friends by looking at their ' popularity','wealthiness'. etc. But they NEVER care about thier personalities. They do not care a thing about their politeness. Because they just want to be well-known. Its like packaging. An apple may look good outside. But in the inside, it is rotten with many worms. So choose your friends carefully. So you will not regret it next time. Its fate whom bring us together so.. DONT LOSE TRUE FRIENDS !
How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
This is an excellent question for many of us. As we are sometimes short-tempered and this may cause us to lose many good friends aroung us easily. We can cope with big or little upsets by calming down. Do not explode immediately when it comes to any of this situation. Try to stay calm, think about it and talk with your friends nicely. If things do not work out, you may have to think about your friendship. Though not everyone is a friend. There are oso may people out there trying to harm you by pretending to be a friend to you.
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend should help you in times of need. You should also help them too. Good friends are always there by your side when you are in trouble. They share your wealth and woe with you. They share their things with you, help you when you need help, comfort you when you are sad, help you talk things out with others, calm you down when you are angry and share your excitement when you are excited. Friends do not run away when you are in trouble, instead, they will stay beside you and help you.
Remember words from a true friend," I will always be there for you."
Friendship is strong yet delicate, it can be easily broken.
Cherish all your friends before its too late !
my friendship
I have a best friend. He has been my friend since primary 1. Even though we do not have many things in common... we still remain best friends... we tried very hard to accommodate(wrong spelling i think) each other. Some people think that being popular is the best thing ever you have in school. but it turns out to be wrong after all. I find being popular is useless and the best thing ever is still having a good friendship. I cherish my friendship with my best friend, Adrian. He understands how people feel and never add in harsh words on people when they are sad. All these years in this school... I find primary 2,5 and primary 6 the best years of all the years!!! woot!!! haha. primary 2: teacher: mrs kwan!!! she rocks! primary 5: mrs lim!!! she rocks too!!! primary 6: mrs chien!!! aw this is the best teacher you can ever get in ur life as she is cool and understanding!!!!
friend-sinking-ship /friend-floating-ship
What are your experiences about friendship as you grow older?
From young … we make a lot of friends... Since kindergarten, when I was around let me think … K1, we were still ignorant and we normally make friends by their out look, just like packaging e.g. U look at food placed in front of you, looks totally delicious, but it is all a fake, it uses coloring… we see if this person is pretty or handsome, they will be surrounded by ‘friends’. They do not care about their personalities but their appearances. Until now, some of us still make friends this way .I still remember I was like that too .but when I was K2 I knew this person,charmaine, she was very sweet-looking .she was surrounded , and after some time of following her, I felt that actually , she is pretty but she is bossy . And she is also very petty. But I also have true friends, you can say that Shu Wen and Su Fang are pretty, but we are always very friendly and happy together .it is the happiness that I cannot have when I play with charmaine. It is actually the personality inside that count. Never judge a book by its cover..? When we grow older, I still remember this person (don’t know how to spell her name, suppose it is) lavania.an Indian person. Not pretty and not only that. She is the worst person that I know .she is totally annoying. I always quarrel with her. An irritating person she is . As I grow older, during P3 (can’t recall P 2) I had many friends, and it was Mrs .... who was teaching us. I was sobbing, I only know that the true friends were those that came forward to ask if I was okay. I could not remember what had happened in P4 but I remembered P5 …! How I miss those days in P5 grace , I made a lot of friends ,and they are still my good friends .I know this girl,winona,she is my best friend ever …! And Jolene too! She is pretty and I want to make friends with her. And we became good friends she was very caring and always plays together .lots of fun…! But, now when you have gone through so many friendships, we learnt what the ‘real’ is and ‘fake’ friendships .and we eventually will not get hurt so easily.
How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
Normally, I don’t get so angry until I look like I am going to murder someone. But when I get really very angry, I will clench my fists and bite my nails and think, and stare into space. I will hold something really tight. The last time I was angry, a few days ago, I was so angry I ignored that person who made me so angry. I was fuming and I took out my journal book and wrote on it. And pressing the pen very hard on the paper. I also have my own diary at home, mostly written on memorable days.
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend is one that cares about you, one that takes care of you when you are in trouble, one who is willing to sacrifice for you. One who loves you deeply and one you can share your secrets with. that is what I feel as I am able to do this for my best friend and we don’t really quarrel, and friends makes one happy and not lonely. One who understands you inside out and one whom you can speak to and listen to. Friendship is a great thing! a friend does not control you and be selfish and have went to your house before ,hang out together before ,and lets you have freedom and have fun together ,like twins, eat together, laugh together, play together drink together and do things together.whom you are very open to . Whom you will miss when he/she is not around.
This is from my experience and my own friends.
Such is life,
Accept it.
Treasure your friendships, have fun together, while you still can! Enjoy it!
(ha ha)
From young … we make a lot of friends... Since kindergarten, when I was around let me think … K1, we were still ignorant and we normally make friends by their out look, just like packaging e.g. U look at food placed in front of you, looks totally delicious, but it is all a fake, it uses coloring… we see if this person is pretty or handsome, they will be surrounded by ‘friends’. They do not care about their personalities but their appearances. Until now, some of us still make friends this way .I still remember I was like that too .but when I was K2 I knew this person,charmaine, she was very sweet-looking .she was surrounded , and after some time of following her, I felt that actually , she is pretty but she is bossy . And she is also very petty. But I also have true friends, you can say that Shu Wen and Su Fang are pretty, but we are always very friendly and happy together .it is the happiness that I cannot have when I play with charmaine. It is actually the personality inside that count. Never judge a book by its cover..? When we grow older, I still remember this person (don’t know how to spell her name, suppose it is) lavania.an Indian person. Not pretty and not only that. She is the worst person that I know .she is totally annoying. I always quarrel with her. An irritating person she is . As I grow older, during P3 (can’t recall P 2) I had many friends, and it was Mrs .... who was teaching us. I was sobbing, I only know that the true friends were those that came forward to ask if I was okay. I could not remember what had happened in P4 but I remembered P5 …! How I miss those days in P5 grace , I made a lot of friends ,and they are still my good friends .I know this girl,winona,she is my best friend ever …! And Jolene too! She is pretty and I want to make friends with her. And we became good friends she was very caring and always plays together .lots of fun…! But, now when you have gone through so many friendships, we learnt what the ‘real’ is and ‘fake’ friendships .and we eventually will not get hurt so easily.
How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
Normally, I don’t get so angry until I look like I am going to murder someone. But when I get really very angry, I will clench my fists and bite my nails and think, and stare into space. I will hold something really tight. The last time I was angry, a few days ago, I was so angry I ignored that person who made me so angry. I was fuming and I took out my journal book and wrote on it. And pressing the pen very hard on the paper. I also have my own diary at home, mostly written on memorable days.
What is a good friend to you?
A good friend is one that cares about you, one that takes care of you when you are in trouble, one who is willing to sacrifice for you. One who loves you deeply and one you can share your secrets with. that is what I feel as I am able to do this for my best friend and we don’t really quarrel, and friends makes one happy and not lonely. One who understands you inside out and one whom you can speak to and listen to. Friendship is a great thing! a friend does not control you and be selfish and have went to your house before ,hang out together before ,and lets you have freedom and have fun together ,like twins, eat together, laugh together, play together drink together and do things together.whom you are very open to . Whom you will miss when he/she is not around.
This is from my experience and my own friends.
Such is life,
Accept it.
Treasure your friendships, have fun together, while you still can! Enjoy it!
(ha ha)
my friendship
Last year when i was in primary five, i was in 5Truth. My form teacher was mdm Suzana. for the first half of the year, i was quite lonely. But my life started to change when i met a group of friends called the 'family tree'. around July, i met this group of friends, among them there were girls there were also boys.i was the second smallest. we went along quite well, we did A LOT of things together- recess, sitting together in class and homework. but sometimes later we started to quarrel, then reconcile again. this went on and on. I also quarrel, but most of the times i was always the one who make them back to friends again.
I remembered one time when we knew our result for SA1. i accidentally told one of my friends the wrong marks. he was very very angry, and because of the 1 mark, we quarrel. u may think that we were very petty,because of that 1 mark, we quarrel. After we quarrel i thought about it, why can't i just say a word 'SORRY' and everything will be fine, but it was sooo difficult because we frequently quarrel and although he is in the wrong i always take a step back and say a word 'SORRY'. when i was in the wrong i said sorry, but when he is in the wrong i said sorry too because i don't wish to quarrel. but this time i can't take it why he can't take a step back and say a word sorry? So i cried, my friends came and console me and i told them i was fine. 'OK, don't let the emotional takes over me', i thought to myself and i said sorry!! and it was all fine, in fact i and him got closer!!!
when one of my friends birthday, we would celebrate together. Giving her/him a surprise or present, we even went to their house to celebrate. i remember when the end of the year we went to shopping together! It was sooooo FUN, that i will not forget. We always wanted to go to the same class the next year(primary 6), but unfortunately, we did not. some of them in 6 Truth, 6 Unity and 6 Joy, and of course me in 6 Grace! At first, i don't wish to be in 6 Grace i wanted to be in 6Truth!!! But when i entered 6 grace the next year, it changed, i LOOOVE 6 Grace!!! it was soooo fun. i thought although we were all not the same class, we will meet during recess and chat. At first it was like that, but we all have our new friends. i took up basketball and i played almost every recess. Now i regret it, i should not have took up basketball and leave them behind. and my friends gone recess with their new friends.
I really hope that they will see this post and maybe we can return to the past and cherish the time we had together.
Low Heng Yi (6 grace)
I remembered one time when we knew our result for SA1. i accidentally told one of my friends the wrong marks. he was very very angry, and because of the 1 mark, we quarrel. u may think that we were very petty,because of that 1 mark, we quarrel. After we quarrel i thought about it, why can't i just say a word 'SORRY' and everything will be fine, but it was sooo difficult because we frequently quarrel and although he is in the wrong i always take a step back and say a word 'SORRY'. when i was in the wrong i said sorry, but when he is in the wrong i said sorry too because i don't wish to quarrel. but this time i can't take it why he can't take a step back and say a word sorry? So i cried, my friends came and console me and i told them i was fine. 'OK, don't let the emotional takes over me', i thought to myself and i said sorry!! and it was all fine, in fact i and him got closer!!!
when one of my friends birthday, we would celebrate together. Giving her/him a surprise or present, we even went to their house to celebrate. i remember when the end of the year we went to shopping together! It was sooooo FUN, that i will not forget. We always wanted to go to the same class the next year(primary 6), but unfortunately, we did not. some of them in 6 Truth, 6 Unity and 6 Joy, and of course me in 6 Grace! At first, i don't wish to be in 6 Grace i wanted to be in 6Truth!!! But when i entered 6 grace the next year, it changed, i LOOOVE 6 Grace!!! it was soooo fun. i thought although we were all not the same class, we will meet during recess and chat. At first it was like that, but we all have our new friends. i took up basketball and i played almost every recess. Now i regret it, i should not have took up basketball and leave them behind. and my friends gone recess with their new friends.
I really hope that they will see this post and maybe we can return to the past and cherish the time we had together.
Low Heng Yi (6 grace)
Few years ago(about 7 years) , i was actually not living in bukit timah i was living at bukit panjang (around there). I had a great friend at the kindergarden and he was always helping me. Then at primary 1 i had to move to here(bukit timah). After i moved here i didn't remember or have any memory of that good friend . Then , recently I went to a tuiton centre near Bukit Panjang and i saw this boy. He looked very familiar. Then suddenly he looked at me and called my name. I then suddenly remembered him . He was that friend and i was surprised he remembered my name after all these years not meeting. Then , i realised that because during kindergarden, we took a photo and i wrote down my name on the photo.Maybe we were destined to be good friends.(true story not lying ^.^)
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