Awww, gee, this is sure hard.
....at P1 and P2, everybody is really close and friendly,which now , to me, seems quite creepy. Anyway, nobody actually knew how to judge good friends at that age, so for some people, they made really BAD mistakes in choosing chums and for some lucky midgets *quote* it was the beginning of a beautiful friendship*cough*
At P3 & P4, things start 2 get rough and some girls experience puberty at this age, which makes them quite , for some, matriarch-like and emo, ordering others around. Some more cowardly boys get scared and hide in the deep pits of the mind and become more cowardly. ( Luckily, that minority does not include me)People have better judgement of others and leave some pals behind, having only Class 2 friends (will explain more in section 3 about Grouping).
Enter P5 & P6.Only the fittest survive.Get ready to be betrayed, yelled at ,hit and insulted by your so-called 'friends'.Keep only Class 1 s (Again, more in section 3)
2. How do you cope with the little upsets or the big upsets?
I usually get my retribution the next day by a prank or a rude joke, or raise my voice or just be plain moody the whole day.
Another option is to listen to the Halo Trilogy theme songs. I switch on my Xbox 1 ( this was during my P4-P5 years) and pop in a Halo 1 or Halo 2 disc and plug in my headphones. I would just let the game be idle at the main menu and listen to the theme song music thingy which I found, strangely, quite soothing.I now listen to it on the Computer. Saves me lots more hassle.
3. What is a good friend to you?
The long-awaited section3.I Classify friends as Class1, Class2 and Class3 friends, classified as best chums 2 people you should never EVER have set your blessed eyeballs on respectively.
Class3
An acquaintance that you despise for personal reasons and mix with bad company.In short,2 words: NOT GOOD.Break-up immediately.Trust me. I've been through this several times.
Class2
'Average Friends', a quote from good ol' Manfred.People you use as daily convenience stores for calling about anything you forgot to note down at school.You would'nt want 2 bother your Class1 friends with this too much.(1 time a week is ok)Friends that you want to keep close, but not too close, better 2 have more allies than enemies.
Class1
These are good friends. They stick by your side and never let ya down , day and night. They don't explode and scream about an accidental rude remark and would have invited you to their house by now. People that are actually are sensitive to your feelings and know when to give you some space when needed.They treat you well and you'd better do the same.
1 comment:
I admire this sincere, cheeky, very well explained and elaborated post!
But the prank part - I hope that's a thing of the past because as you get older, bells in your head should ring and tell you that this si not a good option. Listening to music is good!
Also 'convenience stores' - woah that's harsh. I guess if you treat some people that way, they also treat you that way in exchange.
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